Men Buying Jewelry For Women Need to Know These 10 Things (and More)

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   I have discovered that the reason I have had so little success at buying jewelry for my wife in the last 16 years is that there is so much I do not know about jewelry and how to shop for it. This is a short list that scratches the surface of what I learned recently in the book "His Guide To Her Jewelry."

1. Shop all you want but never buy without her. This is rule #1! If the occasion is important and the expected price tag is high, always take her along to make the final purchase. If you want to surprise her give her a gift certificate to her favorite jewelry store for the amount your research deems appropriate. If you don't, like my wife, she will either not wear it or take it back. Right guys?

2. There are only three occasions that jewelry is the best (and maybe the only) choice to give that special someone. They are Valentine's Day, her birthday, and Christmas. These are also the three occasions we need some guidance to make sure we buy the right thing, that we don't over or under spend, and we don't express the wrong sentiment.

3. Learn about precious metals. All precious and semi-precious stones are set into precious metal settings. Knowing not only what the metals are, but how they are graded as to value, is very important. The four precious metals that are used in jewelry are sterling silver, gold, platinum, and titanium.

4. Choosing a jeweler who has a reputation for honesty is very important when buying a serious piece of jewelry from a jewelry store. How do you know? Well, ask others who have shopped there, ask the jeweler what kind of documentation of authenticity and credentials (like cut, clarity, etc.) he provides, make sure the store's reputation is a long standing and solid one in the community, and get a report on it from the Better Business Bureau.

5. What techniques were used in the making of the jewelry? The jewelry manufacturing techniques have a great effect on its beauty and durability. Things to consider are how many prongs hold the stone in place, room underneath the stone(s) for easy access when cleaning, the condition of the solder joints, and much more.

6. Warranties and guarantees. Getting these promises in writing is your guarantee that an item will last a long time and be replaced if lost.

7. What to give to whom. Women of different ages like different things. They wear jewelry that befits their ages. Don't buy a toe ring for grandma (unless you have seen yours wear them of course.)

8. Consider personalized jewelry for that special woman in your life. Personalizing it makes it more special because it is just for her.

9. Shop on the internet. The internet has revolutionized all kinds of shopping. It saves time and the expense of driving from store to store and the increased choices of places to buy lends well to finding the best deal.

10. Take the time to learn the terms used in the industry. What difference does karat quality of gold make? What do the quality markings on platinum mean? Gemstones may be measured by weight, size or both; what difference does it make? What are the four criteria that a diamond's value is based on? Lots to learn.

   It would be nice to have a guide to study before and to take with when men shop for women's jewelry. I think I found it in "His Guide to Her Jewelry."

Dickie Smith has worked in financial services for over 30 years. He supports affiliate niche marketing as a good way to recession proof your income. For more about what every guy needs to know to buy that special someone jewelry go to http://tinyurl.com/blingforherguide

Make Women Addicted to You - Real World Seduction Ebook Review

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We've all read a book that was good. It makes you reflect on your life for a second or two. Time well spent. Then you sometimes read a book that's a real winner and you take something from it that you make part of your everyday life. Then you sometimes read a book that is just so "out there" that you're pretty sure if you should implement what it teaches you'll be violating several laws at once.

Let me assure you that you won't, the only laws you will be violating is the natural laws of attraction between men and women.

By the time I discovered Swinggcat's Real World Seduction ebook, my success with the ladies was unreal, even if I have to say so myself. Yet, I knew there were even more to learn.

Enter Swinggcat.

This is Jedi mind tricks at its best. Swinggcat is the master of pure attraction, picking up girls and taking them home the same night. As i was reading through this book the hair on my neck began to stand up straight as I was realizing what power I could possess over women by knowing this stuff. Through using hard-wired attraction switches that is found in all women, Swinggcat discovered techniques that make women emotionally addicted to you. Push-pull is one of my favorites. I've applied it myself and I' ll never stop using it, because it works like magic.

Push-pull is about sending women on an emotional rollercoaster that makes them nothing short of addicted to you. One moment you're still laughing, connecting, you're really hitting it off... and the next moment you turn your back on her and chat to the next girl and she's left with that "doggy-dinner-bowl" look. Classic.

This is only one of to plethora of techniques that Swinggcat passes on in Real World Seduction. The book consists of 5 major parts, each part consisting of a few chapters.

Part 1. Becoming the prize Inner game is where every good book should start dating and Real World Seduction is no exception. This is where Swinggcat goes into the mindset you should have to dramatically increase your success with women. I loved the part about goal-frames and frames. I have basically teaches you how to set and take over the whole interaction that it all leads exactly to the outcome you want.Part 2. Prizability This is where some priceless gems are located. Swinggcat strongly promotes the idea of being the prize and not giving your power away to a woman and treating her as the prize. You learn how to approach women and open them, some cold reading techniques that are sure to get you a few very interesting looks (the good kind, believe me) and also some storytelling and rapport building techniques to make the women totally comfortable with you. Talking to women you've only known for a couple of minutes and "knowing" her better than some of her best friends leaves quite an impression.Part 3. Prizing In these chapters Swinggcat whips out the stuff you've been waiting for. The stuff that gets the girls going crazy for you. I starts it off with something I have calls Open Loops, conversational technique that implies you know something about a girl but you don't complete your sentence, leaving them wanting for more. This is followed by my favorite, Pushing and Pulling: The art of sending mixed signals. He had me sold at "Pushing". You can also expect some amazing chapters on body language and role-playing. Role-playing is another fun one, having the girl interacting which is what you want. The more somebody commits to an interaction, the more meaning it has for them.Part 4. Test & frames chick chick As any other part of his book, this one is just as brilliant. We've all had it, you walk up to a woman you'd like to meet only to get rejected faster than Steve Buscemi hitting on Paris Hilton. On second thought, if her reputation is anything to go by I might get some action, but I can turn that "might" into a "most likely" by just reading Real World Seduction. Part 4 explains how to handle chick tests from A to z.Part 5. Putting it all together The conclusion of the book is written as to complete pick up that Swinggat did. I have talks you through the entire process and explains where I used what from the book. You can see the flow of the interaction all the way from the meeting to sex as I have in this real interaction demonstrates he had.

Have I mentioned this book is the closest you will ever come to having super powers? Read a few articles written by the man himself here, or check out Real World Seduction for yourself by clicking here.